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How Self Doubt Sabotages Your Success

by vathan vathandiva vathandiva (2019-03-20)

Tips to create a cool  Hypnosis Live  confidant image when meeting and greeting new people is to walk in to the meeting in a friendly confidant way, make eye contact and give a firm but not bone crunching handshake. Keep the limp fish handshake for a relative you don't like and want to annoy. Don't talk like a speeding train, and take a breath - let the other person get in a few words. Smile when appropriate, and keep movements to a minimum...don't fuss and fidget.

Don't tug your ears, fiddle with your cuff links, cross and uncross your legs, or fluff your hair- it can be distracting and indicates that you are uncomfortable. Even in this modern so called enlightened age, women who smile too much at a male colleague, flick their hair, and fiddle with the stem of a wine glass are indicating through body language that they are interested and available. No it's not fair, but that's life. So watch what your body says if you want to avoid being hit on by Mr Sleaze.

The best thing you can do when talking to both new acquaintances and old, is to give them the gift of your attention. There is nothing worse than talking to someone who is scanning the room in a bored stance as if looking for someone better than you to talk to. Be courteous and give them the attention they deserve. If you do get stuck with the party bore, just make an excuse and politely move on.

Body language is often overlooked, but if you are aware of it, you can use it to your advantage in the work place, home, and in building personal relationships. Body language tells more than your carefully crafted words can say, and if used the right way can get you up the ladder to success quicker than water down a drain pipe.